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About Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada: Proud lamb since "Vision Of Love" 1990

Bill (49,902) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I can only speak based on how I feel, but for me it isn't about this "bad performance" or that "bad performance". Mariah could stop singing today and I will always be a fan. Her music has been the soundtrack to my life, and although I don't "know her", I've always felt a connection with her as a human being beyond the fame. People keep focusing on the career, the next album and the shows in Vegas. But, something just feels very off. Now, I'm not claiming MC is a raging alcoholic, I'm not saying I have all the answers, but I am feeling someone dealing with a lot. Doing the best to push past pain. We can't paint smiles and rainbows on things unresolved and expect them to resolve. I think she's doing her best to cope but is clearly not happy right now. That's what comes through loud and clear when I watch her perform. No it isn't all horrible. But, that pain is constantly there, no matter how upbeat she appears. That's what I think Nathan was getting at. For the record, I really don't feel he sold her out to get attention, I think he was asked a direct question because MC is all over the media, and he answered as a friend who cares and wants to see her thriving for the joy of it again. (Saturday 7 February 2015; 22:50)

Nathan Morris (49,868) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I really think he spoke from his heart and spoke out of genuinely wanting the best for Mariah. (Saturday 7 February 2015; 6:38)

GG (49,771) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada That's exactly what I feel. I adore MC, bought her debut in 1990 as soon as I heard her on the radio, but things do not feel right. She's my fave singer, but I care more about her happiness than her next tour, album, performance hairstyle/clothing, anything being said about Jamaica or the whole retirement debate. (Wednesday 4 February 2015; 23:22)

It's not negative to voice concern (49,665) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I have been a fan literally since I was twelve, and things are definitely not ok with MC right now. I adore her, but I am not going to pretend. The lyrics "she smiles through a thousand tears" feel so appropriate because honestly that's what comes through. Someone smiling through it all, but underneath hasn't been ready to truly face some stuff. Haven't we all been there one time or another? I know I have. Right now, I don't care about her hairstyle or her clothes. I don't care about when her next performance is, I don't care about whether she's lipping or when her next album is coming out. I don't care what the press says or how many people are dogging her publicly. All I want is the best for Mariah the person, not the "celebrity". I hope she's able to get some genuine support around her. (Tuesday 3 February 2015; 3:14)

Regrouping (49,603) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I hope Mariah can take some time to re-group. She seems to be throwing herself into work, and honestly it feels like she's masking a lot of stuff right now. I just want the best for her and if that means no performing for a while, so be it. (Monday 2 February 2015; 7:11)

Tattoo Club audio (49,407) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada Thank you for posting. I loved hearing all the extra bits, and Someday. Awesome. (Sunday 25 January 2015; 6:42)

Dubbing / re-singing (48,955) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada This discussion always fascinates me because it has been a part of the music industry for so long. To me, the artist is still doing the work even when there is editing involved. It is still their voice, it's still them doing the vocals. I mean, I get that some editing is smoother than other editing, but generally speaking, dubbing won't ruin a dvd or tv special for me. (Sunday 4 January 2015; 2:16)

Darryle (48,883) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada Don't quote me on this or anything, but I'm pretty sure Madonna said that in the early 90's. If memory serves I think she mentioned in an interview of some kind that her dad liked Mariah as a singer and she was pretty rebellious with her father lol. A lot of time has passed since then. We all have ego's, Madonna and Mariah are no exception. Mariah can dish out shade when she wants to. I have noticed over the years of evolving, Madonna has mellowed considerably in terms of shading people. I personally just chalked that comment to be ego based. (Thursday 1 January 2015; 19:25)

Alexis (48,850) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada Thank you for being able to discuss another artist on this board - and do it respectfully. It is very much appreciated. Mariah is my favorite female vocalist, Madonna my favorite entertainer and usually fans of both are completely at odds with each other, which I've always found silly. Mariah and Madonna are not compatible, they don't need to be. It is the music and entertainment business, there should be room for everyone without feeling threatened all the time. I like all kinds of music, rather like flavors of ice cream. (Wednesday 31 December 2014; 4:31)

JTTW remix video (48,643) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I just love this version so much especially because I really feel we get to see Mariah the human being being silly and having fun, beyond all the other stuff that "celebrity" brings. Say what you will about the Tommy years, but the videos she put out for Merry Christmas are just so timeless. (Friday 19 December 2014; 21:54)

Merry Christmas, Stacey (48,585) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I love your new icon. I love Mariah's 1994 Christmas photos. I almost picked that one. Lol. Seriously, if we can't peacefully accept one another's viewpoints when we're talking about things, just on the most basic level of human respect, then there is something wrong. I don't think anyone should have to defend their fandom. It isn't a huge deal, and in the end has zero impact on what Mariah does, musically or personally. Lol. I'd venture to guess there have been times (for example) where you possibly haven't agreed with things I have posted on this board, and if so, I don't think having a different view is a personal attack on me as a person. I say what I feel, but I don't expect all people have to see things the same. I've been reading/posting here for years now, and the moment someone mentions another artist (like Celine, Mary, Madonna et al) people get all defensive and it's all about how "Mariah is the Queen". Now, I love Mariah, she is hands down my fave singer/vocalist of all time. Been a fan literally since VOL. I also love Madonna's music I have since I was 6 lol. Are the two comparable? Not in the least. Apples and oranges I don't see what enjoying more than one artist has to do with being a fan either. I love a whole assortment of musicians, but it doesn't make me love Mariah any less. There should be room for everyone. Same goes for a messageboard. Cute story about your daughter. (Thursday 18 December 2014; 0:25)

Seriously? Wow show last night amazing (48,572) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I've read online some think she's lipping which is truly sad, because she's not. What a treat around the holidays, thank you Mariah. (Wednesday 17 December 2014; 18:15)

Wow, how magical to be able to attend a Christmas show (48,559) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada As I say every year, Christmas isn't Christmas without Mariah's holiday music, and what a treat for those able to attend the Beacon. I have truly enjoyed the clips I have seen. Thanks RJJ12 (and everyone posting them). Man, I would love a DVD of one of these shows. Sounds great. Merry Christmas, all. Does anyone else still love the 1994 photoshoot for Merry Christmas? To this day, I love them. I think MC s radiant. (Wednesday 17 December 2014; 3:30)

Lee (48,310) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I just want to say for the record, when I entitled my post "What do people want from Mariah?" I did so not because I was asking the question, but more to emphasize a point. At times I feel the actual music gets lost because of constant back and forth over Mariah's voice, live performances, versus lipped ones, what Mariah should and shouldn't be doing to improve her career/life whatever else. Could Mariah benefit from sitting down with her team, getting a vocal coach, reworking her songs to fit her current situation? Absolutely. I'm not suggesting anyone who has voiced that is "wrong". I'm simply saying, it is easy for people on the outside to look at things and say "I've got the solution. This is what you should do." When in reality none of us are living her experience. Was the tree lighting flawless? No, it wasn't. She clearly struggled. But to read what is out there right now on the internet about MC, and how "bad" things are it's as if people are talking about world hunger or some horrible injustice on the planet. There are upsets when she lips and upsets when she sings live and it doesn't go over as expected. It seems as though anyone who chooses to offer her compassion gets told they are making excuses for her, or not looking at things with an objective eye. I have absolutely no control over what Mariah does in her life she is the only one that does. I honestly can't sit here and say the tree lighting was the worst performance ever, because it wasn't. Yes, Mariah has hit and miss stuff going on with her vocal ability, but getting angry with her, judging her and blaming seems counter productive. (Saturday 6 December 2014; 2:24)

Honestly, what do people want from Mariah? (48,250) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada If she lip-syncs during a performance, social media goes on a rampage. When she sings live and doesn't sound exactly like 1990-1996 social mediaites are ready to rip her a new one and bring her legacy into question. To me, that steals all the joy out of watching a performance in the first place. Last night was a live performance. I appreciate when live performances "sound" live. Did it sound flawless? No. But, when I watch her sing, I don't do it because I want to point out how bad she sounds. I don't expect her to sound like she did on the 1994 recording. I get that the vocal wasn't perfect, but it certainly wasn't horrendous either. (Friday 5 December 2014; 0:53)

RJJ12 (47,760) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I appreciate the audio and video you've been posting, thank you. The audio from the concert last week put a smile on my face. (Sunday 2 November 2014; 19:37)

I appreciate that everyone is able to express themselves here (47,700) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada Which often means fans/posters aren't going to share the same perspective. That's to be expected. If we all shared the exact same thoughts, what would there be to talk about? I mean this in the most sincere, light-hearted, humorous way possible. March will will be my 37th birthday, and in the last few years I've really come to the place of acceptance of what is. For me, I don't come here and post because I want people to agree with me or because I want to convince people of my views on MC and her music. I don't have any control over anything but my own thoughts and responses. We don't have to have the same opinions on Mariah, to be respectful and kind to each other - especially when discussing her. It doesn't have to be so serious. Know what I mean. Vern? Lol. (Friday 31 October 2014; 2:29)

Edward bless you, thanks so much (47,621) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada My email is deedre.statz@gmail.com. (Sunday 26 October 2014; 16:09)

Been off the board a few days (47,614) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I was blessed to be able to attend a Jason Mraz concert. I love him. Wow the performance of Birdland is awesome. If anyone has an mp3 of that, I would be ever so thankful for a copy. Some great videos out of Singapore, nice for MC and the fans. (Sunday 26 October 2014; 2:38)

Enjoyed full concert video (47,505) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada Thank you for posting. I agree about the fan interaction, I found it endearing. I know she struggled in spots, but I still enjoyed the concert. That's just me. (Monday 20 October 2014; 0:02)

Thank you RJJ12 for posting ABMB rehearsal (47,397) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I loved it and actually hadn't seen it before. I realize that the stuff in China and Japan has not been the best vocal performances of her career, I get that. I'm not making excuses, I just don't think it is as dire as some are perceiving it to be (ie MC should retire ect). I know she's being paid, and I get that some are tired of what they feel are excuses or "having to defend her" in the face of bad publicity or whatever else, but you know, we're all at choice and there's no rule that says fans must defend Mariah. For those that have grown tired of it, I say let go of the stress, and just don't do it if you don't want to, or don't feel it is justified. For me, personally, I was 12 when VOL came out and Mariah is my fave female singer. That won't change based on what is or isn't going on with her voice. Yes, things have changed since 1990, and no I'm not a fan who feels Mariah is perfect. I think she's a human being, capable of being flawed and making mistakes like the rest of us. At the end of the day we don't know what has gone down for her despite the media commentary or her public appearances. Any claims are simply speculation based on what we think we know. At the risk of coming off like I am wearing rose coloured glasses, or being called a delusional fan, Mariah has always said music has been her saving grace and a source of healing. IMHO this is why she's touring right now. It is clear whatever transition she's going through has been hurtful/emotional and for me it isn't making an excuse to have compassion in your heart for people, even when they create their own experiences. If that makes me a "delusional lamb" well, I guess I am. Lol. (Sunday 12 October 2014; 22:51)

Concert audio (47,104) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I've listened to a lot of clips and I think she sounds good. No, it isn't like 1990 in every song, but I don't expect that. It isn't nearly as dire either. I've been saying for years I'd love a Gospel and Jazz album and after that Billie Holiday cover, that hasn't changed. Lovely. (Saturday 4 October 2014; 21:17)

Wow (47,092) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada It's nice to see "The Roof" on the setlist. I love that song. It's my jam. And she doesn't perform it very often. Wishing her the best. (Saturday 4 October 2014; 19:17)

Well, I was wrong (46,558) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I admit it. I was guilty of hoping some of the stuff the media is reporting isn't true (divorce). I guess my attachment to MC having literally grown up with her music had me wanting things to work out. It is crystal clear now, that is not how things are playing out. I wish everyone involved to find peace moving forward. (Monday 1 September 2014; 21:24)

Wait and see (46,492) by Deedre aka MiTodoChop @HBF from Canada I've had a feeling this whole time and I'm not convinced a divorce is a "done deal" the way the media is reporting. A rough patch, time to work through some stuff, some transitioning, and re-evaluating yes. But, the media jumped all over the D word from the get go, and it just doesn't feel accurate. It just doesn't. I also feel the media did twist passages from Nick's dad's book, to fuel drama about a "messy divorce" in the celebrity gossip columns. (Friday 29 August 2014; 18:12)

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