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Favorite ballads list while we wait (110,878) by BFF from United States
Bobby, you have deeply upset me by not including the masterpiece ballad "Ken Lee" and excluding songs from the masterpiece albums "Prism" and "Gutter". The Divine McCarey rebukes the list.

"Ken Lee, Tulibudibu doubt you."
(Monday 1 September 2025; 04:26)
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MC the GOAT (110,803) by BFF from United States
I honestly think that "Butterfly" is superior to "Daydream" as an artistic effort. I wish "Butterfly" had been recognized at the 1998 Grammys in the categories where she was nominated. The songwriting and production are just better than on "Daydream" and she approached the vocals with more restraint. Rich Juzwiak's review of the album for Slant Magazine really encapsulates why "Butterfly" is her best album. The hip-hop elements were incorporated in a very classy manner and were not overdone like they were for some songs on "Rainbow" and "Glitter."

I think "One Sweet Day" deserved to win something, but Seal's "Kiss From a Rose" was also a really great song from that year. It was a little strange to award Best Pop Album to "Turbulent Indigo" by Joni Mitchell - I have that album and it is not one of Joni Mitchell's best. She lost best female pop vocal performance to Annie Lennox's "No More I Love You's", which is kind of silly too. "Fantasy" is definitely a better record than that one. She lost best female R&B vocal performance to Anita Baker and Album of the Year to Alanis Morissette. There was a lot of competition for Mariah from all directions, but I do agree she should have won something considering she was nominated for so many and considering how successful the album was.

Maybe she would have won some awards at the 1996 Grammys if "Daydream" had been released a little earlier in 1995? "One Sweet Day" and "Always Be My Baby" did not really catch on as hits until 1996, so they may not have had enough exposure by the time of the award ceremony.
(Friday 29 August 2025; 15:44)
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Dating Tupac (110,771) by BFF from United States
Did anyone else listen to this interview from Power 106? Mariah definitely did *not* say she regretted not dating Tupac. The interviewer decided to take creative license and interpret the exchange that way. The just of what Mariah said is that she was star struck by the fact that Tupac knew who she was when they bumped into each other at the 1996 AMAs.
(Thursday 28 August 2025; 15:44)
I am in the minority on Caution (110,725) by BFF from United States
I liked the album with some caveats. My main complaint with "Giving Me Life" is the unnecessary dialogue from "Trading Places". It took up too much space on an already too-short album. It also annoyed me that "8th Grade" had that too-long instrumental outro. It's like Mariah was trying to disguise how short the album and songs were.
(Wednesday 27 August 2025; 00:23)
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Here For It All (110,714) by BFF from United States
I saw the rumored track list posted on Reddit, and it looks legitimate to me. Hopefully Mariah and her team do something soon to revive the rollout. Things are way too quiet right now even after the VMA announcement. Anyone have any idea about the next move?
(Tuesday 26 August 2025; 16:00)
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Sugar Sweet being scrapped (110,701) by BFF from United States
I haven't heard this, but I think it is a very good idea. Mariah lost momentum with the "Sugar Sweet" misfire and needs to recover since HFIA comes out in less than a month. She should release the Anderson .Paak duet as a single since records involving him have had a recent track record of success.
(Monday 25 August 2025; 15:14)
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Article: Mariah Carey to receive Video Vanguard Award (110,674) by BFF from United States
Top 10 Mariah music videos for me:
1. Emotions
2. Fantasy (album version)
3. Honey
4. Butterfly
5. The Roof
6. Breakdown
7. My All
8. Heartbreaker
9. Any Time You Need a Friend
10. One Sweet Day

Honorable mentions: Through the Rain, Boy (I Need You), Touch My Body, We Belong Together
(Saturday 23 August 2025; 20:08)
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Vanguard Award - JLo? (110,671) by BFF from United States
"If You Had My Love" and "Waiting for Tonight" were pretty great videos, not gonna lie. I think it's absurd that Jennifer Lopez received the award before Mariah, but Lopez definitely has a couple of great videos. I will also cop to liking some of her songs even though I don't think she's a good singer and think Mariah is far more talented.
(Saturday 23 August 2025; 19:39)
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MTV VMAs - Video Vanguard (110,626) by BFF from United States
Mariah is getting the Video Vanguard award and performing at the 2025 VMAs. Hopefully she and her team can start building momentum up to that event on 9/07/25.
(Thursday 21 August 2025; 20:55)
Songs Mariah should cover (110,593) by BFF from United States
I would legitimately love to see Mariah step outside her comfort zone and do some alternative rock covers. We all know she has a secret rocker side that's waiting to be unleashed. I honestly thought that was going to happen when she and Courtney Love were photographed together with Lee Daniels 10 or so years ago.

I also legitimately would have loved for Aretha Franklin to do a song like Bjork's "Army of Me". That would have been cool to hear.
(Wednesday 20 August 2025; 01:25)
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Songs Mariah should cover (110,583) by BFF from United States
1. Everything Now - Arcade Fire
2. Human Behaviour - Bjork
3. Jennifer's Body - Hole
4. Oxford Comma - Vampire Weekend
5. Nine In The Afternoon - Panic At The Disco
6. Once in A Lifetime - Talking Heads
7. Today - The Smashing Pumpkins
8. Never Said - Liz Phair
9. Epic - Faith No More
10. Only Happy When It Rains - Garbage
(Tuesday 19 August 2025; 22:03)
It’s tiiiime... to let the children know (110,582) by BFF from United States
Maybe we're all just projecting our own projections onto the projectors who are projecting their projections onto other projectors?

I just want a day where I can just look at rainbows, eat ice cream, and go swimming with dolphins. We're all just living in the moment of being positive.
(Tuesday 19 August 2025; 21:44)
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Daydream anniversary (110,573) by BFF from United States
The album release date for "Here for It All" (9/26/25) coincides with the 30th anniversary of the "Daydream" album release (9/26/95). I wonder if we will get a 30th anniversary edition of the "Daydream" album. Surely we will get something since Mariah has done something for "Music Box", "Butterfly", "Rainbow", and "The Emancipation of Mimi"? I know we got "Slipping Away" and "One Night" on "The Rarities" but perhaps there are more songs we do not know about (other than the Chick album).
(Monday 18 August 2025; 18:47)
Back to chart obsession (110,549) by BFF from United States
I think Mariah and her team could have gotten more mileage out of "Type Dangerous" if they had released the video and remix EP sooner. The song and video are fun, and the song makes really good use of that Eric B. and Rakim sample. It's still doing pretty well in the niche R&B radio format. I never cared for "Sugar Sweet" from the first time I heard it and think it's a much weaker song than "Type Dangerous". If I worked on Mariah's team, I would advocate for a ballad or the Anderson.Paak duet as a third single.

We have to get used to the idea that the "legacy" residencies and Christmas tours are going to be Mariah's main focus since they clearly generate the most income. The rollout for "Caution" came around the time of "The Butterfly Returns" residency and a European Christmas tour, so it seems like we will see a similar pattern for "Here For It All". It makes sense that she would continue to focus on the residencies and Christmas tours... unless a newly released single or album becomes a massive hit. Maybe we will luck out and get a "Here For It All" tour next year, but Mariah's recent pattern of pre-recording entire shows doesn't bode well for how that would turn out.
(Sunday 17 August 2025; 14:43)
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Do you all think? (110,513) by BFF from United States
I agree. I think we are heading for an outcome like what we got with the "Caution" album. That album got great reviews but hardly sold at all and faded away quickly. The tour for that album was pretty successful, but I'm not sure Mariah has the capacity for a tour at that scale any more. She completed shows for "The Celebration of Mimi", but we all know the performances were almost entirely pre-recorded. It was also the same sequence of songs every night.

In hindsight, I wish they would have promoted "Type Dangerous" more. I prefer it to "Sugar Sweet" and think it could have blown up more if the music video and remixes had come out sooner. I don't know how they plan to recover momentum for the rollout since the album release date is still over a month away.
(Friday 15 August 2025; 18:45)
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Pitchfork/Allure interviews (110,491) by BFF from United States
Mariah looks good in both of these interviews, but she still seems so low energy in both. I've kind of been worried about her health ever since some of that footage from the Mimi residency earlier his year. She just seems so tired in so many of her performances and interviews.
(Thursday 14 August 2025; 20:14)
Type Dangerous nominated for MTV music video award (110,382) by BFF from United States
Billboard was actually speculating that Mariah is a possible contender for the Video Vanguard award this year. It would make sense to see Mariah win something given she has a new album coming out and has never received a VMA award before.
(Friday 8 August 2025; 17:08)
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Sticking to MC's music only (110,355) by BFF from United States
I think I understand now why the label went with the September 26 release date. It's the 30th anniversary of the "Daydream" album's release. I wonder if Mariah has something planned to celebrate Daydream's 30th anniversary as well.
(Wednesday 6 August 2025; 16:18)
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Sticking to MC's music only (110,354) by BFF from United States
I hope that's not the case. It seems like the album is a compilation of songs from different studio sessions during the 2020-2025 period. The collaboration with the Clark Sister was first reported back in 2021, for example. We've heard about her having an album's worth of songs in multiple interviews over the last few years, so I would assume that she could deliver some bonus tracks on the alternate editions. *fingers crossed*
(Wednesday 6 August 2025; 16:14)
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Sticking to MC's music only (110,352) by BFF from United States
I agree, Bobby. With all of the different "editions" of the album (D2C, Amazon Exclusive, and Standard editions), surely we will get some alternate track listings or bonus tracks. Otherwise, people are just buying to collect the alternate album covers - which, to me, is not worth spending the extra money.
(Wednesday 6 August 2025; 14:52)
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Sticking to MC's music only (110,337) by BFF from United States
This sounds very promising. I really want to hear these ballads she's mentioned, and I also want to hear more of the stuff she wrote with Anderson. Mariah needs to put something out to rebuild the momentum for the album. "Type Dangerous" built things up a bit, but "Sugar Sweet" has already faded away. Maybe they should've made the album release date sooner than September?
(Tuesday 5 August 2025; 13:14)
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Sugar Sweet video clip (110,275) by BFF from United States
I agree Bobby A. I wish she would focus more on the songs from the album and what inspired them rather than the "I don't acknowledge time" or "my favorite diva is me" nonsense. I know she's making a joke, but it's commanding too much time in interviews where she should be discussing the writing and recording process. Remember when she delved so deeply into the writing and recording processes in interviews to promote "Butterfly" and "Rainbow"? I would love to see that from her again. She needs to front-load her artistry. Otherwise, people will continue to focus on the "diva" attitude, her messy personal life, etc.
(Thursday 31 July 2025; 23:49)
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Sugar Sweet (110,220) by BFF from United States
I am a little surprised by the performance of "Sugar Sweet" in comparison to "Type Dangerous". I prefer "Type Dangerous", but "Sugar Sweet" seemed like something that would have more mass appeal. "Type Dangerous" seemed to do relatively well with radio airplay initially, but I guess that doesn't really count for much these days?
(Wednesday 30 July 2025; 15:28)
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The evolution of Mariah Carey (110,191) by BFF from United States
Do black artists not sing pop music? Are black and white the only types of people in the world? Last time I checked Mariah has devoted fans across many continents and of many different backgrounds other than "white" and "black". I'm not an OG fan. I became a fan in the 1997-2000 period and my first Mariah album was "Rainbow", so I thoroughly enjoyed and appreciated the way Mariah integrated hip-hop into her music. I think it worked best on songs like "The Roof" and "Crybaby" and the remixes for "My All" and "Thank God I Found You". And I also love the stuff from 1990-1996 - the ballads ("Can't Let Go"), the gospel-inflected tunes ("Any Time You Need a Friend"), the house and disco influenced uptempo songs ("Emotions", "Now that I Know", etc).

Last time I checked, Diana Ross, Michael Jackson, Janet Jackson, Luther Vandross, Donna Summer, and many, many other African-American/black artists have put out music that most people would categorize as "pop". Pop isn't a genre - it is shorthand for "popular" and encompasses a wide range of styles and idioms. And "pop" music isn't synonymous with "white". Country songs go to #1 on the "pop" charts. R&B and Hip-Hop songs have gone to #1 on the "pop" charts. House tracks have gone to #1 on the "pop" charts. Alternative rock songs go to #1 on the "pop" charts.

In 2003, Liz Phair caught a lot of flack for "going pop" on her self-titled album, but she brilliantly pointed out that it's dishonest for recording artists (and critics) to pretend that they aren't in business when they are. Having a career as a recording artist means that you're often (out of necessity) trying to appeal to the widest possible audience - it has nothing to do with "race" and everything to do with capitalism. Sometimes you need a "pop" hit to pay your bills, get out of debt, to build your clout, etc. There's no shame in it.

I actually think the main reason that Mariah began to feel the need to pander a bit was due to music critic Nelson George labelling her "a white girl trying to sing black", which is itself a racist statement because it conflates skin color with singing ability. This was a misnomer because she was already singing gospel, R&B, and house-influenced songs on the debut album in 1990 and the "Emotions" album in 1991. Last time I checked Adele is a more impressive vocalist than Janet Jackson, but this reductive thinking would have us believe that somehow "race" automatically correlates with singing ability. It doesn't.

Mariah being called a "white girl trying to sing black" by music critics became such an issue that she had a press conference/sit down with many of them early on to tell them to cut it out. The reality is that Mariah never denied being mixed race, and I don't agree with the argument that Tommy tried to hide that aspect of her. Critics like Nelson George were ones who created this issue because their color struck, racialist thinking disallowed the idea that someone who looked like Mariah could sing and write so brilliantly.

Sorry for getting on my soapbox, but it makes me angry that Mariah has felt pressured into pandering to this nonsense. Maybe we should stop trying to label music with such simplistic "racial" categories and just enjoy the music?
(Tuesday 29 July 2025; 15:21)
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The evolution of Mariah Carey (110,092) by BFF from United States
For me, my favorite Mariah was from the 1997-2000 period. She had her freedom from the marriage but also seemed very happy and carefree. The bad experience with “Glitter” changed things for the worse in my opinion. In my opinion, that was really the point at which she became more remote, seemed less relatable, and less focused on her voice and the music. That marriage to Tommy really screwed her over in a lot of ways and its aftermath derailed her professional and personal life in the early 2000s.
(Saturday 26 July 2025; 15:10)
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